Part 3 — ANSWERS TO CORRESPONDENTS.
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MEDICAL.
A New Correspondent.—1. Take a lukewarm bath every day. Where you perspire most profusely sponge the parts over with toilet vinegar and water. A very good way to check excessive sweating, especially if it is offensive, is to dust the inside of your gloves, stockings and sleeves with a powder consisting of ninety-nine parts of silica and one part of salicylic acid, finely powdered. Wash your feet and hands every night in warm boracic acid solution (two teaspoonfuls of boracic acid to the quart of water). Change your linen frequently during hot weather.—2. The voice of the girl does not alter so much as does that of the boy. It also "forms" more gradually, and there is rarely or never a distinct "cracking" of the voice of the girl like that which usually occurs in the boy. At nineteen years of age the speaking voice is fully formed, but the singing voice may go on improving till thirty or even later.
Daisy.—Anything which disturbs the health will cause a dark sallow complexion and dark rings round the eyes. Defective hygienic surroundings, lack of exercise or sufficient nourishment, overwork, or indeed anything which interferes with perfect health will cause a sallow complexion. The way to improve your complexion is to take plenty of exercise, eat well, and pay attention to the general laws of health. Cosmetics and other applications would make your face worse.
Daughter.—Your mother suffers from hay fever. Let her follow the advice we gave to Josephine last week. If this proves successful so much the better. But hay fever is a ticklish thing to treat, and but rarely does the first treatment tried effect a cure. Snuffs of various kinds are often used for this ailment. We have seen better results from snuffs containing menthol or aristol than from others. Very often a trivial surgical manœuvre, such as destroying a sensitive spot with a prick of the electric needle will permanently cure hay fever. Sometimes nothing seems to do any good. Hay fever is thought by some people to result from the pollen of flowers irritating the mucous membrane of the nose. This may be a cause in some cases, but it cannot be invariably the rule. As a matter of fact a large number of totally dissimilar affections are lumped together and called "hay fever," and so it is not difficult to see why the same treatment will not be of avail to every sufferer from this complaint.
Pussy.—Can indigestion be cured at home? Of course it can. Better at home than anywhere else. The person who told you that indigestion could not be cured without sea air is not a reliable authority. Attention to diet is everything in indigestion. Last year in The Girl's Own Paper we published two articles on indigestion. Let your friend read these, and also the answers to correspondents which deal with the subject of indigestion. We seem to be always discussing indigestion, nervousness or face spots. She must not eat apples either raw or cooked. She may relieve her constipation if necessary with a little liquorice powder or a teaspoonful of cascara sagrada. If your friend reads what we have advised, she will find all she needs to cure herself of indigestion.
Stavesacre.—We are thoroughly aware that this drug is used to destroy lice in the hair. It is not a drug which we would advise anyone to use. It is a violent poison, and in our experience it does not do what it is intended to do.
Mimosa.—1. It is hardly correct to say that "nearly every girl is anæmic." A great many girls do suffer from that malady, but "nearly every girl" is an exaggeration. We do not think that anæmia is on the increase, if you take into consideration the conditions under which girls live. Anæmia is always much more prevalent in cities than it is in small towns and villages. Consequently, as our towns grow larger, a greater number of girls get anæmia. In London we think that anæmia is slightly less common than it was formerly.—2. In severe anæmia the legs very often do swell. In the slighter grades of the affection they only swell after severe exertion.
Fond Mother.—There are few places in the world more deadly to Europeans than the Gold Coast. If you can possibly prevent your son from going to such an unhealthy place we strongly advise you to do so. Very few Europeans who have set foot upon "The White Man's Grave" recover their health when they return home. And it is but a small number that ever do return.
Pure Water.—You say that you have a porcelain filter. Do you mean a charcoal filter in a porcelain jar, that is, a cottage filter? or do you mean a filter in which the water is forced through porcelain? The latter kind of filter is thoroughly efficient. The former kind is far worse than useless. The question of the use and abuse of filters has been considered by two commissions. The latest commission was held last year. It dealt chiefly with the value of the pocket filters used by British soldiers. The report was very condemnatory.
STUDY AND STUDIO.
Ben Bolt.—1. We smiled at your amusing French-English letter, but we can inform you that we only criticise the handwriting of our correspondents when we have been asked to do so. The request very usually accompanies the MSS. sent to us.—2. There is certainly room for improvement in your English prose, but we should judge you quite capable of making yourself competent to undertake translations.
Miss Hathway, whose society we have frequently mentioned, writes to say that her address is now Chambers' Library, Wokingham. Her "Excelsior Literary Club" for essays, stories, research, subjects of discussion, with criticism and prizes, originated in 1877. The second term of her classes for English subjects, French, and Italian, is now beginning. Terms (moderate) on application, with stamp for reply.
Agatha.—We feel much sympathy for you.—1. Your drawing is good, the shading being well managed for one who has never learned. We advise you to persevere.—2. Your writing is very clear and excellent, considering that you have to write lying on your back. We hope you will soon be stronger.
Ardchullary.—1. You have not given your quotation quite correctly—
"The light that never was, on sea or land, The consecration, and the Poet's dream."
These magnificent lines are from a poem by Wordsworth, "suggested by a picture of Peele Castle in a storm." They mean the light of poetic imagination, which irradiates life, although it is not seen with the outward eye.—2. Your writing is neat and good, but the tails to your g's and y's, etc., are too long.
Bougie's Friend (Belgium).—1. We answered your first question some time ago.—2. In reply to your inquiry as to whether "there is no harm in flirting," we must tell you that there is a type of flirting which is distinctly vulgar, and does not elevate a girl in the eyes of the man who is amusing himself with her. On the other hand, it is only fair to say that some people apply the term "flirting" to very harmless and innocent gaiety and brightness, which is perfectly natural when young people meet together.
INTERNATIONAL CORRESPONDENCE.
"Lys de France" writes to inform her many would-be correspondents that she has already made her choice. She adds, "You cannot imagine the pleasure your 'International Correspondence' has afforded me."
"Erica," Buda-Pesth, Hungary, has offers of correspondence from Miss Edwards, Bibbenluke, New South Wales; and Miss Green, G. M. King, Esq., Glen Rock, Spring Valley, Tarkastad, Cape Colony.
Marie Arapian has an offer of correspondence from Miss Julia Ina Fraser, Egypt House, Newmarket Place, Westmoreland, Jamaica.
Miss Fraser would "like to correspond with some nice ladylike girls about her own age (seventeen) in England, France and Italy, or India."
Miss Clarissa J. Ault and her sister would be glad to have a French girl correspondent of about their own age (nineteen to twenty-one). Address, Aulton House, Church Gresley, Burton-on-Trent.
Miss Emma L. Young is anxious to obtain a French correspondent aged twenty-one. Address, 2, Sans Souci, Harold Cross Road, Dublin.
"Poker," Cholwell House, Temple Cloud, Bristol, wishes to correspond with a French girl aged about eighteen, of good family. She suggests that "they should correct each other's letters."
Miss Lilian A. J. Slade, Lawn Villa, Crewkerne, Somerset, would like both a French and German correspondent aged about eighteen.
"One who is puzzled" wishes to correspond with Miss Florence A. Jeffery (New York). She should write to the address we gave.
Miss Violet Goodhart Godfrey, M.L.S., wishes for an American correspondent; she is eighteen next January. Will an American girl (either the one whose request we published on August 6th, or another) write to her at Ivy Hatch, Horsham?
Gertrude wishes for a French correspondent.
Clem wishes to exchange letters with a French, German, or Italian lady.
Miss E. Watkinson, Wanaka, The Vale, Chelsea, wishes to correspond with a young lady of her own age (twenty-four) in Canada.
Ignoramus wishes for a French girl correspondent of seventeen to twenty.
Dorothy Cross, Minterne, Cerne, Dorset, and Miss Madelina Pullin, The Parsonage Farm, Warminster, Wilts, wish to correspond with French girls aged about fourteen.
"Cissie," Southend, should send her full name and address.
"A Reader of the 'G. O. P.,' J. B. Ashford," a girl aged seventeen, wishes for either a French or German correspondent, or both. Address, 55, Marlow Road, Anerley, London, S.E.
MISCELLANEOUS.
Dombey.—We have not made the experiment ourselves, but we have heard that you may restore a faded photograph by placing it in a saturated solution of bichloride of mercury, leaving it in the bath for a few minutes, and then washing and drying it; of course it must be unmounted. There is another method; but whatever experiment you make should be first tried on one which is of no value to you. For our part, we should prefer to leave the photo in the experienced hands of a professional artist, and we cannot take any responsibility in giving the foregoing recipe.
Marta.—There is no cruelty attached to the trade in ostrich feathers. The birds are not killed, excepting only at Buenos Ayres, to provide the market with them; nor are they made to suffer from plucking like the poor geese, to supply quill pens. Each plume is cut with a sharp knife close to the skin, and this gives no pain any more than the cutting of our hair. The stumps wither and fall out; or after ten days may be removed. The greatest supply comes from the Cape; but they are also produced in Tripoli, Egypt, and Morocco. But the trade prices for birds has much gone down.
A. B.—The name "Collect," as applied to the short prayer employed before the Epistle and Gospel, simply expressed the fact that it has reference to the main subjects of the latter extracts collected together. The term "Bible" only meant "a book" in the time of Chaucer. It has been restricted in its application to the Divinely-inspired collection of writings, and the article "the" was super-added. And so the term "Scriptures" is employed with the definite article, to show that these writings are separate from all others; sometimes the word "holy" being further employed to mark them as standing alone, and in a rank superior to that of any others, however distinguished and authoritative.
Edith.—Should anyone step on your foot, or accidentally push against you, and apologise, say "Not at all, don't mention it." Do not say "All right," and certainly not the vulgar reply, "Granted," from which an inference could naturally be drawn that you considered an apology was due, which would not be complimentary.
L. E. Bird.—The initial letters placed on an invitation card—"R. S. V. P."—are those of the French words, Répondez, s'il vous plait, which, translated into English, means, "Answer, if you please." Your handwriting is scarcely formed, but very legible, and promises well for a running hand, with practice.
Beatrice.—You had better transact the business through the Exchange and Mart. Get one of the papers to see their terms (70, Strand, W.C., Office of the Bazaar. E. & M.).
Florence A. Jeffery.—A halfpenny of William and Mary, with plain edge, and the date under Britannia, "1694" (in copper) is worth from 1s. to 5s.; but some examples have sold for much more. Three halfpennies, one Irish, have been sold for £1 12s., but they were very fine specimens. Another of 1694, of bold work, extremely fine, realised £7 10s. A halfpenny of George II. is worth from 6d. to a 1s. The head of the date you name, "1754," is an old one.
H. Maxwell.—We must refer you to the 1st volume of The Oracle Encyclopædia (Geo. Newnes, Ltd.), page 619, where you will read—"In the old Church of St. Martin, built in the 12th or 13th c., Roman bricks and Norman sculpture have been worked-up in the walls!"
M. D.—We recommend you to dispose of the medical books through the Exchange and Mart (70, Strand, W.C.).
Silkworm might offer her silk for disposal through the medium of the above-named paper.
Lizzie.—The French obtained the soubriquet of "frogs" not because of their using these creatures as food, because we find that the southern Germans, Austrians, and Italians esteem the green ones in the same way, as delicacies of the table, but the name was derived from the original heraldic device of their kings, who bore on their escutcheons "three toads (or frogs) erect, saltent." In the year 1791, "What will the frogs say?" was a common phrase of the Court at Versailles, applied to the citizens of Paris. The site of this city was once a quagmire, or swamp, like that of London, and was called Lutétia, or "mud land," its inhabitants living like the frogs, in the mud. September 20th, 1885, fell on a Sunday.
C. W. N.—We like your "Reverie." It shows much poetical feeling; but a little flaw at the commencement might be corrected. The nave cannot be said to be "pierced" by the aisle, an arch, nor even by the column. They do not go through the roof. We do not say this satirically, but because the full and correct meaning of words must be remembered and strictly employed in their true sense.
May.—Hermanszoon van Rhyn Rembrandt was a Dutch painter and engraver; born in 1608, and died in 1669. If your picture be signed, it is valuable. Search the corners carefully for any initials, date, or mark. You do not name the subject.
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