Note 81 — Chapter VI

20. There are numerous examples of feigned resistance to the bridegroom. Thus among the Korwas the bridegroom and his party “halt at a short distance from the bride’s house, and there await her party. Presently emerges a troop of girls all singing, headed by the mother of the bride, bearing on her head a vessel of water surmounted by a lighted lamp. When they get near enough to the cavaliers they pelt them with balls of boiled rice, then coyly retreat, followed, of course, by the young men, but the girls make a stand at the door of the bride’s house and suffer none to enter until they have paid toll in presents to the bridesmaid.”81 In a Gond marriage “all may be agreed between the parties beforehand, nevertheless the bride must be abducted for the fun of the thing: but the bridegroom has only to overcome the opposition of the young lady’s female friends—it is not etiquette for the men of her village to take any notice of the affair.”82